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A friend of ours once took his paycheck out in front of us while at a gathering, to show us he really makes as much money he says he does. Now this friend had never exactly been the tactful type (I mean, he once told me I was too close to my hubby’s age to sustain his interest over time, well), so we weren’t exactly shocked. Yet for someone, anyone to talk about money and how much they make, is always a bit of stretch for most people (not our friend obviously).
Fast forward to today, in the era of Equal Pay and wage transparency, is it still taboo (or at least the tacky equivalent of removing your weave tracks in public), to tell how much you make? Or is it actually an incentive to keep the records straight for everyone?
My $0.05: Especially for women, talking about money, salaries and paychecks often crosses the line of what’s considered “lady-like”. Yet, with all the controversy around Equal Pay (although we still have some ways to go before we can even talk about it at work), an increasing number of women are now asking demanding to get the raises they deserve, enrolling in salary negotiation courses, and rightfully asking why their male counterparts are getting paid more money for the same work! Actually, more women are now asking the question: “What’s your number?”
I personally think if you’re comfortable sharing your salary with a friend, family member, or even colleague, why not? Think about how much a genuine talk about salaries could help in new fields where pay information is not readily available. Or how much easier it would be asking for a raise when having enough information to at least target a reasonable range. How would you know your salary is not up to par if you don’t have anyone else’s to compare it to?
Do you think it’s OK to tell how much you make?
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