It happened…Your co-worker sent you a friend invite on Facebook, and you wish you hadn’t seen it…Now you’re thinking about all the not-so-kosher posts on your Facebook timeline, the “interesting” girls night out photos, and how much of your life you really want people at work to know…Plus, as much as your co-workers may be on the nice side, these days you never really know how cray-cray someone is until you land on their social media page…And then, it kinda is a bit late to backtrack…
And these situations are even all the more challenging when your potential new Facebook friend is your boss! I mean, refusing your boss’s Facebook friend request could potentially be more awkward than revealing how much you really spend on shoes (let’s not even go there!). So, to ignore or not to ignore?
My $0.05: I generally have it as a rule not to friend co-workers or bosses. While connecting on Linked In is recommended, other social media platforms can be reserved to our private lives. As to ignoring a co-worker, or even worse, your boss’s friend’s request on Facebook, I would not, just for the simple reason you’re bound to run into them at work. Just send them a nice email, or nicely explain to them you’d prefer to connect on LinkedIn. And if you succumb to the pressure and do accept their requests, you may always use your privacy settings, at your own risk.
Have you friended your co-workers on Facebook, or ignored their requests?
The Corporate Sis.
Great advice.. I tend to ignore them all…which is not the best practice. It’s consistent but not as transparent as I would aim to be.
Hi Zena! I agree, although it may not be as “friendly”, better be safe than sorry, some areas are definitely to be kept private.
Yes you should ignore friend requests, I have and I even told my coworker that I will. He still sent it to me. Its a line, I use FB for my friends (so I can bitch about work) I’m not going to cross that line.
Hi The Girl! I tend to do the same, I don’t like to ignore friend requests, but yes Facebook should be private. The only ex-co-workers I have on FB are also friends. thanks for your comment 🙂 How’s the job going?